Writing by K. Mcghee on Wednesday, 8 of April , 2009 at 10:51 am
Alternative Lifestyles Pt. 2
The Bi-way (Men’s version)
OK folks, sorry it took so long but here we go again!
This is a bit more of a touchy subject for a lot of people. most people in society follow a double standard when it comes to talking about the bisexuality of men. Like I said in the women’s version its every mans and some women’s fantasy to see two women…not the same when your talking about men. Why is this??? lets see a few thoughts shall we..
1) Women in society are “normally” (term used loosely) can be viewed like math
nurturing + loving + romantic= sexy if you multiply by 2 and let the fun begin
2) Men are viewed as the strong rugged provider also seen as utilitarian! (Hey guys ever wonder why your girl calls you a tool?)
That being said…who needs two hammers in their toolbox?
What most people don’t know is that bi sexuality among men is just as prevalent if not more. If you don’t believe me go to any chat room on the web that that has a name like youngW4olderM and you will see 40 men talking to someone that may or may not be a women. Granted this does not by any means make you bi but it does lead to my next point. Raise your hand if you have ever been to a sex shop! That’s what i thought. You know the booths in the back, there not there JUST to watch porn by the minute. Men, the crafty little devils they are, devised a system called a glory hole. For those of you that don’t know what that is, it is a hole in the wall large enough for a penis, on the other side stands a mystery person who can do what they please with that penis. (Also found at truck stops along major highways and airport bathrooms) “well it could be a women!!!” Yes it could…but its not. Women don’t need to hide behind a wall to give sex away! So who are all these gay men you ask? Well again, what openly gay man needs to hide behind a wall. So who does that leave? Thanks for asking…it leave all the “straight men” that frequent sex shops. This situation lead society and the media (just ask ex gov Jim McGreevey) to view these actions as dirty and disgusting. Another social strike against bi men is the “gay for the stay” prison mentality. It amazes me how many “straight men” have sex in a prison with no women! Again these actions are done by criminals so it has to be wrong. What society doesn’t realize or want to accept is that these “dirty” and “disgusting” actions are being done by curious fathers, people that may be insecure or unsure about their sexuality, or openly bisexual men. At this part of the article i should point out that “metro-sexual” is not bi sexual its just caring about your appearance. OK back to the matter at hand, bi sexuality should not be viewed as a bad thing. It may not be my cup of tea or yours but someone you know may like that flavor. People need to look beyond the norms of society and accept that not everyone is the same, but they are not freaks or degenerates. They are….your neighbor, your mailman, or the nice guy that down the block that lends you his hammer.
Some men are in the closet some are just in a booth at the porn shop!
Fin!
k.mcghee
Category: celebrity rehab
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