Midnight Makeout

Limitations are factors that we can all over come. The only reason that we do not is because someone or something tell us that we cannot do them.   Why? No one has done them or the odds are against you accomplishing them.  That is reality speaking to you.   Listening to “reality” will only hinder you in accomplishing your goal.  Look at me, I am a complete idiot.  Never let that stop me in anything that I have done in my life. If I don’t know something I will learn it even if someone said that it can’t be done.  I learned statics and fractal mathematics outside of school.  There was no one to help me but Google! If I accepted reality then I would not have accomplished half the things in my life.  Work, school and life you should always think and do. Never think that you cannot because once you think in this manor and second guess yourself. Then you will fail. A wise man once thought me the acronyms of “Pace” Positive attitude changes everything and “FIDO” Forget it Drive On. These sayings have saved my ass more times than I care to remember.  These saying helped me force my way through any limitations that have come in to my path.
Never forget that there are two types of people in this world those who think about something and those who do something.  That is what makes a great person and great thinker, doing something. If you just think about it then who will know that you thought about these things if you have not done them, NO ONE.
Don’t limit yourself because others limit themselves.

Change, everything changes always and forever. The old proverb you never step into the same stream twice, you never truly understand it until you become a more mature being. Only, then you realize that it is the meaning of life. Always try change to better yourself, to evolve as a person as a human. But too many of us realize this fact too late in life to do anything about it. Change is not always a good thing. But in life we cannot choice what changes will occur to us. Things just go on without us. Look back on your life anything that you thought was the same is no longer what it was before. Your friends, your work, your family all changed. Is it for the better, you will never know but that is just the way that life works. We should not focus too much on controlling all of these changes. Just try to make the best of what we can with them. Always try to change things that you can for the better, if all of us do this then we will live in a better world. Will anyone listen? I don’t know most people never listen to anything unless it affects them directly, too late as always. People in general are a day late and a buck short to change anything that matters.

Just something to think about.

OK folks! I figured that since we will be diving deep into the world of sexuality with my next few posts, some people may not know or fully understand some common terms used when talking about alternative lifestyles. I have composed a list of a few that might help. This is by no means all of the terms…just the ones I can remember off-hand. Study up folks, you never know when life might test you!

AC/DC ::
Bi-Sexual Person(s)

Arts ::
Fetishes

B&D or BD ::
Bondage and Discipline

Back Door ::
Anal Sex

BBW ::
Big Beautiful Woman. Larger than average woman that is very beautiful regardless of size or weight.

BDSM ::
Bondage - Discipline - Sadomasochism

BI or Bisexual ::
Someone that enjoys sex with both men and women.

Bi-Curious ::
Someone that is curious, interested in or has had limited Bisexual experience.

Bondage ::
The practice of restraining a person(s) for sexual pleasure. ::

Couple ::
Two people, generally one male, one female.

Cunnilingus ::
Oral stimulation of the vagina/clitoris

Discipline ::
Spanking, bondage or similar practice intended to arouse sexual desire.

DP ::
Double Penetration, simultaneous Vaginal and Anal.

Exhibitionism ::
Showing off in public, involving nudity.

Fellatio ::
Oral stimulation of the penis

Fetish ::
Sexual stimulation via non sexual acts or objects.

Full Swap ::
A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to AND including intercourse.

Gay ::
Homosexual, generally a male, but not always.

Heterosexual ::
One who enjoys and has sex with only the opposite sex.

Homosexual ::
One who enjoys and has sex with only the same sex.

Lesbian ::
Gay women.

LTR ::
Long Term Relationship

Moresome ::
More than four.

Off-Premise ::
A swing club or party where there are no designated locations for play. This may or may not exclude the activity from actually taking place.

S&M or SM ::
Sadism/Masochism

Safe ::
Someone that is not at risk for becoming or causing a pregnancy.

Sodomy ::
Usually Anal sex, possibly forced.

Soft Swing/Swingers ::
A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to but not including intercourse.

STD ::
Sexually Transmitted Disease.

STR8 or STR or Straight ::
Straight, a Heterosexual person.

Swap or Swapping ::
Two couples exchanging partners

Voyeur or Voyeurism ::
One who enjoys watching.

The bi side of things (woman’s version)

We have all heard that when you ask a man what his wildest fantasy is, the answer you always get…two (at least) women at the same time. It seems that more and more women are willing to experiment this way, not to just please and fulfill their mans fantasy but because they themselves find it “interesting”. Alot of women are curious about it, they don’t want to be gay because they like men but seriously women are hotter. Years ago if you suggested such a thing to a friend you may have gotten a not so nice answer. It seems that modern films and shows depicting women who are bi or gay and have a “normal” life besides what they may or may not be doing in the privacy of there bedroom. Gay or bi women are usually depicted two ways:

1) The infamous “bull dike”. You will know when you see one by the flannel shirt, ripped jeans and a job in a predominantly male career

or

2) The “lipstick lesbian” you will recognize her by her full lips covered in red lipstick and breasts that overflowith with a tanned goodness that lasts the rest of the way to her sweet round ass.

So now that we have the media induced falsities out of the way…I hate to break it to you guys…women bi-sexual or gay look just like everyone else. obviously there are exceptions to every rule but lets try to stick to reality. A woman’s beauty can be measured in a multitude of ways. Looks obviously, but lets go deeper, how about personality…I don’t want to date a bitch regardless of how hot she may be. humor…i love me a funny girl, you know the one that laughs at your 2ND grade fart joke. how about the “buddy” girl…she will not only sit through a football game but she actually understands what a point conversion is!!!…wait is she a bull dike…NO!!!!! people regardless of there sexual preference are just that..p-e-o-p-l-e!!

OK that all being said, we know that women almost always have an insecurity about themselves. Again the media and society as a whole should have its head on the chopping block for this. We boost up images of the perfect girl, the type that men want a threesome with. So women, having all this on there plate, now have to compete with what is again the “ultimate male fantasy”. Women tend to try to face this by doing one or more of the following

1) Being the drunk girl at the bar who will kiss her friend to lure men. She may have no intention of actually going through and making a mans dream come true But hey everyone likes attention sometimes.

2) Trying the “whole bi thing” with a close friend who is in the same boat, behind closed doors, no one ever knowing.

3) There are the few that just jump in the deep end and is willing to be openly bi or bi-curious. Somethings you just want to try one time twice if it was good.

4) Some lose their bi-virginity just like they always dreamed…drunk, at a frat party…how romantic!

These are just a few of the scenarios that are out there.

Is everyone ready for a reality check? Here we go…

Ladies listen, everyone gets curious, we are born that way, we are human. If its something you have thought about because YOU want to experience it,,,go for it, as long as its a safe situation with the right women, it could open your eyes to a whole new outlook on life. Also don’t worry, its not just you, the woman down the street has thought about it, the check out girl, the doctor, the teacher all of them, some act on it others don’t. either way it is just a lesson learned. For others its a great experience. Remember when you are in control you don’t need to have any bad experiences, you may have a one time experience but that IS life’s lesson. Its how we learned if we liked tomatoes, we had to try one.

All this being said, alternative lifestyles are not for everyone, this note is not to try to get as many women to kiss as possible, its to try to answer some hard to ask questions. I hope this helped, if not stay tuned there is more to come!!!

I wanted to have a sit down with all of our readers. Okay are you sitting down? We the people of midnight makeout are all about pushing the limit.

I wanted to take this opportunity to introduce a new writer to midnight makeout. K. Mcghee will be writing a multi-part piece on sexuality in all forms. Everyone knows about being straight. But many questions arise whenever you find out people are swingers, gay, bi ect…

I hope you enjoy this multi-part piece. K. Mcghee is an excellent writer and is very knowledgeable in the subject that is sex. Please show your support and stay tuned…. K. Mcghee is sure to inform and enlighten.

Welcome to midnight makeout K. Mcghee! May we makeout with you through your words! lol

 May you flourish with this opportunity!

xoxo

I just read an article –http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/article2337687.ece and I am in complete shock. She cannot be serious right? Alina Percea has put losing her virginity up for auction? She is 18 years old (thank goodness!).  So apparently she is allowed to do this??? I think I know where she got this so soo classy idea from too. She definately got the idea from Natalie Dylan who is also putting her virginity up for bid.  Read that article here http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/01/12/natalie-dylan-auctions-of_n_157329.html

Whatever happened to losing your virginity like any other high school kid?  In the woods, in your bedroom while your parents are asleep, the backseat of your first car ? ANYWHERE lol And it is usually with your boyfriend/girlfriend…closest friend of the opposite sex type of deal or same sex. Whatever floats your boat. But really maybe I am too old for this? Late 20’s am I too old to understand the online selling of your virginity?? I really should not be shocked. I think they sell used socks on e-bay  lol.

I find it completely over the top funny that Alina hopes to find her husband this way. How do you explain that to your future kids. “Yes mommy and daddy met when mommy was selling herself out online…daddy was the highest paying so he won mommy” HA HA HA

Like seriously WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE??? Like who really would seriously pay over $3 million to sleep with a virgin? Is it that big of a deal? Apparently it must be.

The LIAR and CHEATER of the century!!!

Ever know that smooth talking fairly attractive male or female that really just seemed sketchy from the very beginning??? Maybe it was the fact that they told you they had cheated on EVERY girlfriend they have ever had that made  you on edge or maybe it was the fact they just appeared to be bi-polar? Well ladies and gentlemen I have officially joined that club. Just when you think you know someone… let’s face it you really don’t. Thanks to my gut instinct and my great intuition I really saved myself from really making a HUGE mistake by sticking with this one. Ah I should of ran three years ago when he hid the fact that he had a daughter so he could get laid.  I really mean hid the fact like HID PICTURES OF HER to get laid. Amazing… ahhh shoulda, coulda, woulda. I guess we all have regrets. I can just add this ridiculous adventure to that very short list of regrets of mine. Everyone has a moment where they feel like they have been “played” and I really thought those moments ended when you were in High School. Apparently, it does not because there are VERY immature individuals with really BIG issues who bring this shittyness into adulthood with them. I by no means am perfect and I really have had my moments of name calling and crying but the level of deceit some individuals carry out is just really REALLY scary. And to think some of these individuals teach your kids, have kids or BOTH! I really hope they aren’t teaching “how to be a douchebag 101″ to the future of America because that in my opinion is the only course they could realllly teach well.

So I realized I am not the only one in the world that has had to play detective due to certain clues being projected by a certain “special” person/bf/gf/spouse ect….

So I thought I would share with you the specifics of the behavior that tipped me off. Go to work detectives. You deserve to be respected, appreciated and loved. Liars and cheaters know only how to respect, appreciate and love themselves. AND remember ladies…..

A woman’s gut instinct is rarely wrong, so listen to it! Women also seem to be born detectives.

SIGNS OF A LIAR AND A CHEAT:

The passenger seat in the car has been moved and is not in the usual position.

Unaccounted for hairs of a different color on clothing.

Condom count is off.

Leaves house or goes to other rooms to talk on the telephone.

Hangs up suddenly when you walk in the room.

Uses computer alone and secretly with a demand for privacy - If someone begins cheating, whether on-line or in real life, they’ll often go to great lengths to hide the truth from their partner.

Excessive internet usage especially late at night.

Joins a health gym or weight reduction clinic.

 New hairstyle. OR facial hair
Wears hair spray, colognes & perfumes more often.

An unexplained indifference or aloofness in the relationship.

Spontaneous plans or events that do not include you.

Your partner becomes defensive during normal conversations.

Cheater’s relationship with you will almost always change. They become more distant, fault-finding or blame you for their behavior.

OR….

CATCH THEM IN A LIE ABOUT WHERE THEY ARE GOING ON VACATION WITH THEIR SINGLE GUY FRIENDS. THEY SAY NEW ORLEANS BUT REALLY THEY ARE GOING TO A TOPLESS SWINGERS RESORT IN CANCUN MEXICO. —-> yeah that one pretty much gives it away right there that they are cheating on you.

If you would like to see the full list from our friends over at ….

www.womansaver.com you can click this link here….

http://www.womansavers.com/catch-a-cheater.asp

*Remember…

Love is a word that is constantly heard,
Hate is a word that is not.
Love, I am told, is more precious than gold.
Love, I have read, is hot.
But Hate is the verb that to me is superb,
And Love but a drug on the mart.
Any kiddie in school can Love like a fool,
But Hating, my boy, is an Art.

by Patrick Byrne (owner of overstock.com)

“I think…therefore, I’m single. ” -Lizz Winstead, Co-creator Daily Show, The Man Show

“Is there a cure for a broken heart?  Only time can heal your broken heart, just as time can heal his broken arms and legs. “- Miss Piggy

“Sex without love is like food without taste. “- Maurice Fitznuggly

Is it me or is this news story a bit erotic?  This volcano erupted off the shores of Tonga in the South Pacific.  Steam, Smoke and ash shot thousands of feet into the sky. Sexy? I say it is very sexy. Kinda like the ocean had an orgasm. You know I am right. See more here http://www.nydailynews.com/news/galleries/pictures_of_volcanos/pictures_of_volcanos.html