Writing by K. Mcghee on Tuesday, 5 of May , 2009 at 8:28 am
Sexuality! Its not all the same
booty calls, one night stands and fuck buddies!
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To some people these three types of sexual experiences are all the same. Those people are idiots! These are completely different in many aspects…lets take a look starting with some definitions
booty call: A person who is called to relive sexual desires. (may be an ex)
one night stand: A person who you may or may not have known that you slept with for one reason or another.
fuck buddy: A FRIEND that you can have sex with and have no adverse effects on your friendship.
See told you they were different!, but that’s not the most important part of these relationship, its how we handle everyday things with these people. Most people don’t know how to differentiate these relationships the next morning. Here are a few rules to follow…
Booty Calls: Booty calls can be difficult, you want the sex but not the friendship or relationship and if you want that sex to continue you have to walk a tight rope. You cant be rude and throw the person out but they should not spend the night. This relationship if done correctly should consist of two people who only really like each other for sex. This means that you may have dated this person in the past and just didn’t click on a real basis…have no fear because if you enjoyed the sex while dating it doesn’t have to stop just because the relationship ended. You do however need to play your cards right and keep emotions at bay. At no point in this booty call should words like love be uttered from anyone’s mouth. There is no need to call and check on the person the next day or if you see each other in public there is no need to greet each other in anyway other then you would to a random person you know from that bar.
One Nighters: One nighters can be a bit complicated. They usually involve people who don’t know each other very well and a lot of alcohol. We have all woken up after a long night of partying and found someone in bed with us. Despite what you may remember…yes you most likely had sex. This is where it gets awkward…you have a few choices, is this a person you wanted to get into bed? Why? Did u want a chance at a relationship? Do they know that? The best way to handle this situation is the same as you would if you didn’t sleep together. Just exchange numbers and be on your way. If you want a shot at that relationship or have an STD that your doctor told you that you should disclose to any sexual partners then you can call, but be warned…the outcome may not be what you want!
Fuck Buddies: (FB) There is a fine line between a fuck buddy and a booty call. The biggest difference is that you actually talk to and/or hang out with your fuck buddy. A FB is usually a person you have been friends with for some time. This is the person you bring to your cousins wedding because you aren’t dating anyone at the time, but don’t want to go alone. This is also the person that you can call up to go to the bar or watch a movie with because you both like it, not because you want a date. After any of these situations you and your FB may then have sex. The next day you can call, but not to see if they are OK with what happened, but to see if they are hitting the bar after work, or if they heard so and so did who or whatever. There doesn’t need to be a discussion about what happened the night before because it wasn’t the first time and probably wont be the last. All this being said you do have a few responsibilities.
1) Playing the wingman/wingwomen: If your at the bar with your friends and your FB wants to get with some guy or girl you need to help!
2) Playing the boy/girlfriend: If your FB is being haunted by some creepy drunk guy or some annoying drunken girl you need to step in and “pretend to be your FB’s boy or girl friend” only to get them away from that situation!
3) The “love” word: This should only be used is a friendship context. If you have been friends for years and you sign your Christmas card “love …” fine but only if you sign all your friends cards that way. Also there is no need to worry about relationship holidays like Valentines Day.
4)You also have to be the revenge tool: This means if your FB just broke off a relationship and is angry or upset you need to be there for the angry, drunken, sloppy sex that may end up with the person crying in the middle and you not…finishing! You don’t need there to be an emotional voice but as a tool to relieve aggression.
5) Spending the night: Unlike booty calls a FB is allowed to spend the night, but it is not nessesary. Usually they will wake up on a Saturday morning in your house grab some Motrin and a beer and be on there way or hang out and hit the diner with you to get a greasy egg sandwich.
6) Relationships: If your FB enters a real relationship, you are required to be a regular friend. If you get jealous or spiteful you are not a real FB but someone hoping for more. That being said watch out the shit will eventually hit the fan.
All in all you need to be aware of what type of relationship you are in and also consider what the other person may think. The worst way to find out what relationship you are in is when it’s too late to fix it.
Writing by Blunt truth on Friday, 17 of April , 2009 at 8:10 pm
Limitations are factors that we can all over come. The only reason that we do not is because someone or something tell us that we cannot do them. Why? No one has done them or the odds are against you accomplishing them. That is reality speaking to you. Listening to “reality” will only hinder you in accomplishing your goal. Look at me, I am a complete idiot. Never let that stop me in anything that I have done in my life. If I don’t know something I will learn it even if someone said that it can’t be done. I learned statics and fractal mathematics outside of school. There was no one to help me but Google! If I accepted reality then I would not have accomplished half the things in my life. Work, school and life you should always think and do. Never think that you cannot because once you think in this manor and second guess yourself. Then you will fail. A wise man once thought me the acronyms of “Pace” Positive attitude changes everything and “FIDO” Forget it Drive On. These sayings have saved my ass more times than I care to remember. These saying helped me force my way through any limitations that have come in to my path.
Never forget that there are two types of people in this world those who think about something and those who do something. That is what makes a great person and great thinker, doing something. If you just think about it then who will know that you thought about these things if you have not done them, NO ONE.
Don’t limit yourself because others limit themselves.
Writing by Blunt truth on Monday, 13 of April , 2009 at 10:17 am
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The guys at Overtime NYC are at it again! Charged up, locked and loaded by their sponsor V2 Vodka. V2 is the Original Super Premium Spirit INFUSED WITH CAFFEINE AND TAURINE
Thursday, April 23, 2009 Overtime will be at Taj in the city from 7:00pm - 11:00pm
OPEN BAR( OHH YEAAA) will start at 7pm and last until 8:30 pm That’s right 1.5 hour open bar!
Along with great drinks, Taj has a great food menu.
Do you have friends and co-workers who may deserve OVERTIME REWARDS as well? Bring them too!
Writing by Blunt truth on Wednesday, 8 of April , 2009 at 2:19 pm
That is the defense of a former New York City police officer! The reason why he failed his drug test is because his girlfriend at the time who did do cocaine or “coke” had given him oral sex lots of it. I never knew you can get high especially with coke through oral….. But in theory if he sprinkled it on top then got oral then maybe. Does anyone else have an opinion on this?
I have 2 issues with this case one it was a hair sample drug test aka you are fucked exam and two it took him a year to say hey this test was wrong! If it was me and I was innocent then I would have said something that day. How can you wait a year and say yea well it was wrong and I should not have gotten fired. A year is enough time to clean up so you CAN pass the drug test. That why he waited this long
Have you failed a drug test because of oral sex?? I want to know…. Is it even possible?
Like acid I understand but cocaine come on!
Writing by Steve on Wednesday, 8 of April , 2009 at 1:31 pm
Today Vermont became the 4th state to legalize gay marriage. The Governor of Vermont was trying to veto and make gay marriage illegal in Vermont. But Vermont legislature voted and gay marriage is to remain LEGAL in that state.
Writing by Blunt truth on Wednesday, 8 of April , 2009 at 11:45 am
You have to give these guys some credit! This the 4th ship this week that they have captured. To top off this fact this is a fling a United States flag. With today’s ship that is 14 ships and 260 people that are being held hostage by these Pirates. How insane is this?? 260 people! You have to respect these guys they are good at what they do.
I think that most of us can also identify with them. We all wanted to be pirates living by our wits, free of laws and rebelling against authority. These guys are living that life but not by choice. Choices are few and far apart in Somalia. They took the cooler one (I think)
At some point though they will run into the wrong ship crew, a crew that is “locked and loaded” and the results will not be pretty.
Writing by Jennifer from Midtown on Monday, 30 of March , 2009 at 2:43 pm
Bill Orielly Sean Penn comment
So Bill O’Reilly has come forward saying that he doesn’t support Sean Penn because Sean Penn supported Suddam Hussein. Bill claims he will not spend any money on Sean’s movies.
If I were a betting gal… my money is on Bill. No way would I ever support Saddam Hussein. Sean Penn can go move to a country ruled under a dictatorship and live it, learn it & LOVE it.
GO BILL!!! and I love freedom of speech! Kudos to Bill for having the guts to say that he doesnt like Sean Penn.
But if these two were gonna fight my $$ cashhhh moneyyyyy $$ is on Bill. He has more anger in him. Sean Penn can go play hop scotch with Saddam.
This bulletin is for all the ILLEGAL aliens, the way to liberal sympathizers, and all the fuckers that think flying the American flag upside down is the proper way to handle the situation. I for one have had enough! If you don’t like our country so much then why did you come here? No-one forced you to come and no-one is stopping you from leaving. Let me be the first to tell you whats really up here in America. We have thousands upon thousands of men and women fighting in other countries, leaving there families behind, and some giving that ultimate sacrifice. Do you know why they are doing it? Its for that flag that you fuckers are disgracing by flying upside down. Its not just a colored piece of cloth but its a symbol for what this country is and stands for. It stands for the bravery and the bloodshed, it stands for the freedoms that make this country great. I for one don’t want some ungrateful bastards coming here ILLEGALLY and and demanding rights. You are ILLEGAL!!! you have no rights in this country…none…zip …zilch. I don’t want people to get me wrong, i have no problem with people trying to better their lives, and if you need to come to this GREAT country to do it, fine but do it legally, learn the language, you know English! Be productive members of society, embrace the people and the American cultures. I don’t want you to forget your heritage, but i want you to respect mine. We don’t owe you ANYTHING!!!! I know our immigration system isn’t perfect and it can be difficult to get some things done in a timely fashion, but its better then nothing so deal with it! A little side note to the American liberals that think we should give our country away because they are to scared that they may offend someone….Well I’m offended by it..oh wait! i forgot I’m only a hard working American citizen, what i say or think doesn’t matter anymore! Why do you want the tail to wag the dog, your all coward little fuckers that have to much time on your hands to do anything good for the country.
A few last things before my head explodes…To Augustin Cebada….FUCK YOU REAL HARD…SO HARD YOUR EYES BLEED!!!!!!! We are not going anywhere!!! To anyone that booed the national anthem at the February 15, 1998 U.S. and Mexican soccer game …FUCK YOU!!!!!!!!!! and the donkey you rode in on! To all those who are offended by these statements..GO THE FUCK HOME…WE DON’T NEED YOU OR YOUR SELF RIGHTEOUS EGOTISTICAL WAYS
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